Spotlight: Selecting The Setting

Barstad encourages couples to consider the story a space tells and its emotional or cultural significance. She asks, “Does it fit the dream atmosphere that was envisioned? What are the priorities - guest experience, photography uniqueness, or budget?” Keeping these questions in mind helps couples choose a venue that supports both the practical needs and the emotional impact of their celebration.

^{Joe Carvalho of Blue Rose Photography courtesy of Suncadia Resort}

Consider Mood, Flow, and Guest Comfort

Your venue also influences the overall mood and flow of your celebration. High-touch service at all-inclusive properties enhances the guest experience, while historic or theatrical spaces can create grandeur and nostalgia. Barstad notes, “The historic architecture with tin-pressed ceilings, chandeliers, and vintage woodwork carries an artistic and theatrical energy that elevates the emotional tone of the event.” Natural surroundings, like Suncadia Resort’s mountain setting, can also do much of the decorating for you. Jennifer Lazon, Weddings & Events Sales Manager at Suncadia Resort, explains, “The right venue should feel like an extension of your love story, and the moment you step into it, you’ll know.”

Avoid Common Pitfalls

One of the most common mistakes couples make is booking a venue before fully understanding what is included and what is not. “As an all-inclusive venue, we know how much easier it is having many of the essentials already in place,” says Holmberg. She advises couples to avoid miscommunication by asking clear questions upfront, touring the space with their wedding coordinator, and setting budget expectations before visiting venues. This ensures the space truly aligns with both the couple’s vision and investment.

Barstad highlights additional pitfalls to watch for. Falling in love with a venue without visiting it, making assumptions about what is included in the rental, and overlooking restrictions or requirements can all create stress. Couples should also plan carefully for logistics, from setup to breakdown. Barstad notes, “Many brides’ days are ruined because they have not given one thought to how or who is going to handle the end of the event. Nothing is sadder than seeing all the happy guests go home and a bride taking out garbage in her wedding dress.”

Lazonadds, “Your wedding venue sets the tone for everything that follows, it’s the backdrop to your story. Before falling in love with a space, ask how it feels: Does it reflect your personalities? Can guests flow easily from a forest ceremony to a fireside celebration? One of the biggest mistakes couples make is choosing a venue based only on looks or price; instead, find a space that supports your vision both logistically and emotionally. The right venue should feel like an extension of your love story, and the moment you step into it, you’ll know.”

Careful planning and clear communication can prevent these issues and keep the focus on celebrating the day.

^{Taryn Nancy Photography courtesy of The Allison Inn & Spa}

Create the Venue You Dream Of

Finally, consider whether a venue allows you to fully express your story. If a location captures your vision but lacks infrastructure, it can be created. A clear-top tent, for example, allows you to build a fairytale space anywhere while ensuring guests are comfortable with flooring, lighting, and heaters. Grand Event Rentals notes, “This approach empowers you to avoid compromising your unique story for a pre-set room and instead design the entire setting.”

Ultimately, your venue is more than a backdrop, it is the opening chapter of your wedding story. Take the time to ask questions, explore possibilities, and ensure the space reflects who you are as a couple. The right venue will make every detail, from décor to music, feel as though it was meant to be, and your celebration will unfold with authenticity, elegance, and joy.

Venue Selection Checklist

Use this checklist to guide your decision-making and make sure nothing is overlooked:

• What is included in the rental, such as tables, chairs, lighting, and restrooms?
• Are there any vendor restrictions or preferred vendors?
• What are the parking or shuttle options for guests?
• Are setup and teardown times clearly defined?
• Are there noise restrictions or curfew limits?
• Is there a dedicated on-site coordinator for the day?
• How does the space handle weather contingencies?
• Can the layout accommodate the flow from ceremony to cocktails to dinner?
• Are there decoration limitations, including open flames, hanging items, or signage?
• Does the venue’s natural character reduce the need for extra décor?
• Does the space feel true to the style and story you want to tell?

Main photo courtesy of Grand Event Rentals