Interactive and Enchanting Wedding Day Full of Surprises at The Ruins

Nestled in the heart of Seattle, Cody Romano and Joycie Yu’s wedding was a magical experience aptly titled “Welcome to Joycoland.” Cody and Joycie’s fairy-tale romance began on Hinge in late 2021. United by a shared sense of humor, quick wit and creativity, the couple has a relationship that is defined by endless laughter and delightful quirks—perfectly captured by the engraving on their rings, which reads, “Gotcha, bitch <3.” As anticipated, their wedding at The Ruins was an extraordinary adventure that began with invitations featuring Polaroids and whimsical paper butterflies spiraling out of envelopes. The design was inspired by the interactive art of Meow Wolf, the fanciful elements of Alice in Wonderland and the theatricality of The Hunger Games’ capitol. From the bride’s entrance through a veil of fog to a staged game show during the ceremony, guests were surprised at every turn. Cody and Joycie even hired an actor to object during their vows, a moment that turned the wedding into a “Who Knows the Bride Best?” game show, complete with buzzers and the bride’s face on a spinning wheel. The floral arrangements, mostly crafted by Joycie, were a vibrant tapestry of faux florals complemented by live baby’s breath and ranunculus. “As people who love planning surprises and gift giving, seeing our guests’ reactions to the surprises and different details was our favorite part of the wedding,” says Joycie. “Do whatever you want! There are no rules! The best weddings are ones that reflect your relationship.”